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face="Times New Roman"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">CENTER FOR CHRIST
CONSCIOUSNESS</B><BR><st1:City><st1:place>Oakland</st1:place></st1:City>,
CA</FONT></FONT></P>
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face="Times New Roman">Teacher:
<st1:City><st1:place>Aurora</st1:place></st1:City></FONT></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"
size=3>TR:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Donna
D’Ingillo</FONT></P>
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size=3><FONT face="Times New Roman">Topics:<SPAN
style="mso-tab-count: 1"> </SPAN>Becoming aware of harmonizing
with others<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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</SPAN>Verbal and non-verbal communication</FONT></FONT></P>
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</SPAN>Motivation and intention</FONT></FONT></P>
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</SPAN>Heart-to-heart vs. field-to-field energy interactions</FONT></FONT></P>
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</SPAN>Resolving conflicts</FONT></FONT></P>
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</SPAN>Experience & Discussion</FONT></FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT size=3><FONT
face="Times New Roman"><st1:date Year="2008" Day="10" Month="2">February 10,
2008</st1:date><o:p></o:p></FONT></FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"
size=3>Good evening.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>This is
<st1:City><st1:place>Aurora</st1:place></st1:City>.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I am very pleased to be with you once
again this evening as we continue our experimentation in harmonizing with the
energies of others around you.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Now
that you have had some time to allow our earlier lessons and learning to become
more settled within your mind, do you notice any change in the way you interact
with others and in the ways others interact with you?</FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"
size=3>Student:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Yes, there has been
a difference in how I've been interacting with people and how they spent
interacting with me when I have been using the technique.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN><SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I have not been using it enough to notice
much of a difference.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>If you will,
I haven't gotten pretty good at it.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>So in the beginning stages I am noticing a difference.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I know that as I continue to practice
and begin to master the technique than the results will be much more
apparent.</FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"
size=3>A:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>When you notice yourself
practicing, are you able to detect any kind of subtle change in the person
you’re interacting with?</FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT size=3><FONT
face="Times New Roman">Student:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>My
focus has been so much on me and on us that I haven’t noticed.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I'll bring that awareness of how they
are being when the energetic connection is occurring in our next
interactions.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>So no, I haven't
noticed much of a difference within them.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>I noticed that my fear level subsides and I feel more of a connection
with them.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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size=3>A:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Then you are off to a
good start.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>The first component of
harmonizing with others is to become consciously aware that this is in fact
something you wish to practice.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>In
time the more your focus becomes noticeable in your mind when you are more
conscious of what you are doing.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>As
you engage with others, you will start to shift from focusing on yourself to
noticing how they respond to you.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>Then you will learn how to shift or change the subtle ways that you give
off certain types of energy. </FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT size=3><FONT
face="Times New Roman">By this I am referring to your growing ability to notice
your own thoughts and feelings and how they may be sending a subtle signal to
that person’s energy field--that individual may pick up a signal that you are
sending at a level that you are not yet conscious of and they may respond in a
certain way.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>When you become more
practiced and more adept at using this technique you will increasingly come to
appreciate the various postures of a person and begin to notice subtle changes
in their demeanor or the way that they are positioning themselves.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT size=3><FONT
face="Times New Roman">So many times human communication is relegated to the
very basic form of speaking what you know, and so little is done in the arena of
being focused on another person: sensing that individual's needs, responding to
the individuals needs instead of responding from what you think that individual
needs to hear from you.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>This is an
entirely different approach of communication.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I will pause here and ask if you have
any questions or comments.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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face="Times New Roman">Student:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I'm
wondering if you can give a review of the energetic techniques that we can use
to connect to others.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>The two that
I'm remembering are the heart connection and also the expanded energy
field.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Would you speak again about
those two things and any other techniques you would like to review with us?<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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size=3>A:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>There are many techniques
of communication.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>In the beginning
of our discussions several months ago I shared a very basic technique of feeling
that resonance in your heart that we used in ringing the bell with the tone or
note of F.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>This struck a vibration
within your being and it helped you bring your awareness down to your heart
center.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>From there, feel your
desire to harmonize with the individual before you. Simply ask for that note of
F struck in your heart to resonate in that person's heart as well.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>In this way you are setting yourself up
to be used as a tuning fork.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>You
have the note struck within you and are now setting up an energy field for that
note or that vibration to resonate within the individual as well.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>And then you begin to resonate with one
another.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>This is a very basic form
of centering in communication with others be other technique, which you
described briefly does have to one moment. </FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"
size=3>The other technique, which you described briefly, has to do with an
expanded energy field, wherein you would be expanding your heart energies by
focusing your intention on harmonizing with another individual.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>You allow your desire to be of service,
to love this individual, to honor this individual.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Focus on this again.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Ask for that note to be struck within
you.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>As you sense this, allow your
energy field to expand around you.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>You are in some ways doing the same thing as you did in the first
technique.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>However, you are
expanding your energy field so that more of your energy field is able to affect
that individual’s energy field.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>Whereas in the first situation you are connecting more heart to heart,
and in the second situation you are connecting more field to field.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>There is a difference.</FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT size=3><FONT
face="Times New Roman">You are probably going to ask me what the differences are
you now!<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Well, I will tell
you.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>The difference comes in the
capacity in which you are able to affect another person.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>A heart to heart energy connection helps
this bond that you are forging with another person to become strong, to grow, to
build trust.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>It is what you might
consider to be a basic bond.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT size=3><FONT
face="Times New Roman">The field to field communicate in expands your capacity
to affect another person’s energy field.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>Think of yourself when you are in the midst of someone who is very
positive, upbeat, joyful.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>You may
not have connected with them heart to heart that, yet there is a vibrancy that
they radiate. It’s coming from their whole energetic system.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Your energy field picks up on that, does
it not?<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN><SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>So when you are in the vibration of
love and you carry that vibration around you, you are able to impact another
person’s energy field and to help them feel more love around them, even though
they may not be able to perceive it or articulate it in that way.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"
size=3>Conversely, think about when you are around a person who is depressed or
negative, and how their energy affects you.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>This is not someone you wish to be
around for a long period of time for their energy drains you, does it not.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>These are the basic techniques of
communicating without words, from an energetic or vibratory standpoint.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Does this help to refresh your memory a
bit, my sister?<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>(Yes)<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Do you have any other questions before
we continue this evening?</FONT></P>
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face="Times New Roman">Student:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I
do have a question.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I've been
learning about the energy that is in words and the power in them.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>In the lecture that I went to, the
speaker was speaking about the power of words to convey energy.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I regarded it as them saying that words
are essentially the only way humans can transfer this type of energy and I know
that not to be true.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>So words are
very powerful energetically and to use words in conjunction with all of the
knowledge that you are giving us, that the two together will make a much more
powerful communication means.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT size=3><FONT
face="Times New Roman">A:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Words are
conveyers of concepts, ideas that you use to express yourself, to convey desires
and needs, to share ideas and information.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>Words, in them in and of themselves, are only the vehicle for the
information to be conveyed.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>What is
significant in what has value and meaning is two-fold: 1) Intention: what are
the words that are being used intended to convey, and 2) Motivation: the
attitude driving the intention.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>You
can use the same words but have completely different intentions and motivations,
and therefore the meaning would become altered.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT size=3><FONT
face="Times New Roman">For example, if you were to be speaking to a person that
you did not like and did not wish to be around but did not wish to hurt that
person's feelings, you could say in a manner of speaking. “Oh it's so good to
speak with you, I really enjoyed our conversation.”<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>But because you do not like to speak to
this person the intention around this would be more or less to get away.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>The motivation would be not to hurt this
person's feelings.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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face="Times New Roman">In a different situation if you hadn't seen a person for
a long time: a close friend that you missed dearly and when you saw then you
said the same words.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>They would
have a different meaning, because your motivation and intention was
different.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Do understand?<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>(Yes)<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>So it is not so much the words that you
speak, although they do have meaning.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>But you must be very mindful of what is your motivation and this comes
from your heart.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>This is based on
your feelings.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Your intention: what
is it that you wish to achieve; what is the outcome.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Words are powerful tools because they
are used based upon your intention and motivation.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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size=3>You know when a person is being insincere at time.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>How is it that you can detect it?<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>If communication was only done through
verbal conversation, then that would be a very flat and one dimensional
exchange.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>But you can feel, you can
perceive; you have senses to pick up on more subtle energies.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>You have the capacity to perceive
intentions and motivations.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>But
your heart must be open and it must be as much of a state of non-judgment in
order for you to truly perceive what is coming from another person’s energy
system.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Words are only one part of
this system.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Sometimes you can
perceive when a person is being insincere, dishonest with you because of this
output of both heart and mind.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Do
you understand?<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>(Yes)<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN><SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Do you have any questions about
this?<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>(No, thank you.)<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Does this clarify your question?
(Yes)<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Thank you.</FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT size=3><FONT
face="Times New Roman">Tonight I would take you on another journey.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>We will shift this somewhat so you are
empowered with an awareness to take you in to more challenging situations where
your experiences of life may have not gived you all of the tools you need to
handle conflict, especially when you are in conflicting situations with a loved
one--a family member or close friend. Would you be interested in journeying in
this in this dynamic?<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>(Yes)<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Thank you.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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face="Times New Roman">Imagine you are with your fiancé and envision in your
mind's eye that you and he are having a disagreement about a personal
matter.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>You may also go to a time
when you did have a disagreement and you felt that you did not have the skills
or the tools to resolve it peacefully, cooperatively, and harmoniously.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Spend a few moments in letting yourself
create this situation in your mind's eye.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>Allow yourself to feel any kind of discordance or uncomfortableness that
you may have experienced.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Do not be
afraid of the tension you feel.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>Know that we are going to help you make the transition from being in
conflict to being in cooperation.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>(Pause)<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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size=3>As you feel the energy of this situation, set the intention now that you
wish for this conflict to be resolved and for mutual understanding and
resolution to occur.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>(Pause)<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>In your mind's eye envision your partner
and you facing one another.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>You
have spoken your words and they exist in the space between the two of you.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>He has spoken his words and they exist
in that same space.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Now as you
observe this in your mind’s eye, notice what the words you have spoken to one
another do in your energy field.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>Allow yourself to feel them.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>Do they feel uncomfortable? Do they feel tense?<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>It alright for you to feel this for this
exercise and experiment.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>What do
you notice?<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>You may share with me
what you notice, if you wish.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>(Pause)</FONT></P>
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face="Times New Roman">Student:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>It
makes the energy tense and contracted and dense between us.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"
size=3>A:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>What tools would you have
now to help this situation shift to become more light and more positive?<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Do what you can in your mind’s eye and I
will share something with you in a few moments.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>(Pause)<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>You may share with me what you may have
perceived or envisioned in your mind’s eye.</FONT></P>
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size=3>Student:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>At first I set the
intention of shifting the energy into a resolution of the conflict with harmony
and understanding.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Before any words
were even spoken, the energy begins to shift between the two of us in this
situation in my mind. </FONT></P>
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face="Times New Roman">A:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Thank
you. Here is what I would like add for your use in the future.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Anytime you begin to feel a disagreement
or disharmony happening between you or any other individual, recognize that this
individual’s words are triggering an emotional reaction within your being.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Take a deep breath and ask this person
to stop speaking to you for a moment.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>This may be difficult in some situations because when people become
agitated they tend to spew out words without thought.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>But you take control of the situation
and say, “Stop!<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Your words are
hurting me.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I know you are in pain
when you say them.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Let’s stop for a
moment and change our attitudes.”<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>This may be something that you can or cannot do, but it is up to you to
take control of the situation now.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>This is the point I wish to make.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>When you take control of the situation you are the one who is empowered
to use the techniques of love and harmony to your advantage now and for this
other person’s benefit.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT size=3><FONT
face="Times New Roman">After you have said these words, or if these words have
not been perceived, stop interacting with this person for a few moments and
envision in your mind’s eye that you and this individual are in a warm glowing
embrace of light.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>That light has
the intentions of love, harmony, peace, understanding, and forgiveness contained
within it.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>It is a very dynamic
ball of intention.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>As you perceive
this in your mind’s eye, activate this by feeling your desire for the
interchange to take on these attributes.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>Feel how much you want this for both of you; not just for yourself, but
for this individual.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Spend a few
moments asking for this intention to go into this person’s heart as well.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>You may not notice that their words
change at first, but if you can stay strong and keep the power of your intention
strong because of your desire, this person will indeed pick up this signal.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>It may take a few moments, and it will
depend on this person’s emotional state and it will be up to you to use
spiritual resources you have to defuse this situation and help calm the
turbulent waters of this person’s psyche.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT size=3><FONT
face="Times New Roman">For a few moments, use this suggestion in your mind’s
eye.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Use this as the antidote for
the situation you created a few moment’s ago.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>(Pause)<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Please share with me what you see of
this situation after you have allowed some time for the image to do its
work.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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face="Times New Roman">Student:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>In
my mind I see myself stopping the conversation and saying the words you told me
to say.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>The initial reaction of the
other party when I say that is a started reaction; looking at me like I’m
ridiculous!<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>There is a very closed
energy to the proposition, then reluctance, but then the reluctance after
hearing the words subsides and then the openness happens within the other
person.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I can feel the
difference:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I can feel the open
expansion moving energy; and then the energy of the situation is entirely
transformed.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>It’s an entirely new
energy.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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face="Times New Roman">A:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>This is
very empowering, is it not, to know that you are in charge of not only your own
thoughts and feelings, but that you are a positive influence on another
individual as well?<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>So much human
conflict could be alleviated by one individual holding firm in this powerful
harmonizing intention.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>So many
times you react to one another negatively because you have not developed the
necessary tools or skills to know how to handle the negative emotional energy
when it is directed toward you.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>Instead of taking charge and a hold of it, you humans allow the energy of
another person’s emotions to bombard you.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>This creates that situation of defensiveness where your speech back to
them is just as wounded and emotional as theirs is.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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size=3>Taking charge of the conversation in this heart-felt manner keeps you
strong spiritually, keeps you focused positively.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>It will bring about a critical change in
that other individual.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>It may not
occur right away, but if you practice this for several times during
disagreements, the person will begin to appreciate the technique you are using,
absorb it and begin to incorporate it into their own habits.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Time is the factor here, practice is the
key component.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>It is your
foundation of intention and motivation in a peaceful, love-filled and
harmonizing manner that will bring this conversation to a new level for the
relationship.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I will pause now and
ask if you have any questions.</FONT></P>
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face="Times New Roman">Student:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>The
thing that comes to mind when I imagine myself speaking up and stopping the
conversation and telling the person, “I know that you are reacting from a hurt
place inside you and let’s stop and restore peace,” I initially think how stupid
that looks, but it’s a great idea.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>I will do it.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>But on this
plane, we are so not used to doing that, that I first imagined their response as
being a defense at how righteous I’m being, and in taking control of the
situation I know a better way, and I am teaching you, and I’m superior to
you…that kind of perception is what I’m afraid of.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I don’t want it to be a me vs. you
separation.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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face="Times New Roman">A:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Then,
just simply say, “I need to stop for a moment.”<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Then, take a step back in your mind’s
eye.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>You need not even use those
words to that individual if you feel that they will not be received
favorably.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>This will be a
discernment on your part.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>At some
time in the conversation before it gets out of hand and emotions escalate, you
take the reins and you stop in whatever way is best for you.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>This will take some practice on your
part.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I am not suggesting that this
is an easy assignment, but it is one that is necessary if you truly want to
become empowered with this new form of communication: to be aware of the
different elements in sharing with an individual.<SPAN
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face="Times New Roman">Is that not what true communication is all about?<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Sharing who you are with another
person?<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Yet, sometimes sharing
becomes loud and obnoxious and destructive when a person shares their pain and
anger with you.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>However, you as an
individual who is becoming more aware of the nature of energy and the way it
impacts you must come to the awareness of this position:<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>you have control of any situation of
life.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>You must stop and momentarily
assess it and that only comes with practice.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>We can help you by creating these
scenarios and giving you pointers and feedback on what is helpful to you, but
you must practice this and make it become a real, living part of yourself
through habitual practice.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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size=3>This week, I would ask you to do just that: practice this mindful form of
communication by being more attuned in your mind’s eye to what is occurring and
then perceiving with your intention and motivation to be a source of love and
peace for this individual.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Before
we close tonight, I will ask if you have any comments or questions.</FONT></P>
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size=3>Student:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I’m really inspired
by the power of these energies that you are speaking of.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I’ve always wanted to believe that
things like this were possible, but now I’m experiencing that they are really
possible.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>The physics of the
universe are expanded beyond what we think can exist or taught from science that
exist.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>It’s just so exciting that
you are teaching us.</FONT></P>
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face="Times New Roman">A:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Well,
someone has to because you are not learning it on your own!<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>It is our delight to help you in this
way.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>We understand the delicacy of
your emotions and the pain that you have all grown up in.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>It is not natural for you to speak with
love and harmony to another person.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>It is not your natural state, although had your planet developed more
normally, it would have been at this point in its development.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>You are now in this massive correction
stage where all of these ideas are coming to the forefront to help you practice
and choose to use these techniques more consistently throughout your day.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
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size=3>Student:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>There’s a book by
Deepak Chopra called, “The Way of the Wizard” in which he talks about the wizard
archetype and how the wizard archetype essentially comes full circle from the
child in the womb that experiences peace and bliss, when the child is young it
experiences the world as safe because it’s with its mother.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>It’s taken care of and provided for and
has an open heart naturally.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Then
the next stage is the heart starting to close because the child enters into the
world which is not a loving environment, etc.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>The wizard archetype eventually is
living in the world and with people in the world, and is finally experiencing
the world as a safe loving place to be because he or she has mastered these
energetic techniques and is connected to the love that exists.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>The world becomes more of a safe place
because of these energetic tools that are used.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>What you are saying reminds me of that
magic the wizard archetype uses in understanding the physics of the universe
that we are not accustomed to understanding.</FONT></P>
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size=3>A:<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>This is precisely what we
are here to teach you.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>As you
desire to become more filled with the love that comes from your Paradise Father
Source, as you attune your will to the ways of the Father and the wonderful
universe that has been created for your discovery and journey, you will see more
and more into the intimate workings and details of all levels of life.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>This is such a fundamental component to
your development, yet it is something that has escaped you because of the two
miscarriages of the divine plan that occurred here such a long time ago.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>The energies of deceit have long plagued
Urantians in a way that they could hardly conceive.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Now all of this is being brought to
light.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>We are sharing the
techniques that are used in the universe to help you remember your origins, to
help you achieve your destiny. </FONT></P>
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size=3>We will close with these words of encouragement to play and have fun in
creating a new communication pathway for yourself this week.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Notice how you appear before others with
your motivations and your intentions.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>Pay close attention to this and we will discuss at our next meeting what
transpired during this week.</FONT></P>
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size=3>On behalf of all of us who watch and participate in these meetings, I
send their love and greetings to you.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>Remember to call on any of us who are around you to help you remember and
practice the techniques we share with you.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>Good evening, my sister.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>Grow and harmonize in the love we all share.</FONT></P>
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